They say you are who you hang out with. They also say that who you hang out with is a huge influence on your life. Maybe it’s just me, but I like to think I’m positive and encouraging. The title of this book, “Happiness for Beginners: The secret of positive thinking” by Ani Right stoo out to me as a must read! Happiness may not be a new concept or idea for anyone, but what truly is happiness?
I dug into this book and found it enlightening and engaging. There are several quotes within the book that I found important to share with my social media friends and many are on the lookout for this book! There is importance in maintaining the right attitude, in changing our personal perspective, even turning failure into success.
“People today prefer to learn about other people’s problems, rather than take action to solve them.”
This quote holds true with the recent actions taken by the NFL with staying in the locker room or kneeling during the national anthem. They’re attempting to make a statement, whatever it might be. Everyone across the nation is talking about this. Everyone talking about it is more curious about how this is a problem rather than taking action to solve the problem that caused this all to happen. I’m not here to say if it’s right or wrong as it really does not matter in the grand scheme of things. I’m just saying this is an example of people today prefer to learn about other people’s problems instead of taking action to solve them.
“Fatigue, stress, mental inadequacies, and the inability to focus on the test at hand are effects of negativity.”
When we are fatigued, we stress out quicker and we are unable to focus as well. Our mental capabilities are less effective and often times we express more negativity. This all holds true! Have you ever seen a toddler throw a tantrum when they really just need a nap or to go bed? It doesn’t stop at 5 years old, friends! We carry this all through life and continue to throw our own adult sized tantrums when we are tired and stressed, all dishing out negativity on the regular!
“80% of people are willing to accept the distasteful truth of failure. They tell themselves that they will never be successful. They cultivate the thought that they need luck or talent to be successful.”
“15% of people are more determined and resilient. They will brush themselves off and try again, even after they fail.”
Entrepreneurs, managers, professors, authors, etc all face failure fairly often. The difference between the 15% successful and those 80% who quit is their grit. It’s if they fall under this 80% who tell themselves that they’d failed, even if they’ve barely started. The 15% often do not achieve the results they desire. Mainly this is because they did not change their behavior. But that does not equal 100% of people!
“The remaining 5% of people are those who take success seriously.”
Where do you fall? This is super interesting to ponder and it can apply to anyone at any state of life. As an entrepreneur myself, I feel like I’m in the 15% wishing I was in the 5%. Now to take the steps of positivity to get to where I want to be!
This is an excellent book for anyone who seems to be struggling in life, working towards goals, or just feels stuck. The mindset shift encouraged in this book is enlightening and empowering.
This book was provided complimentary in exchange for an honest review by reading deals.com.